A DESPERATE PLEA FROM A HOMELESS MOTHER!
A TWO-YEAR NIGHTMARE- JESUS, PLEASE SAVE ME!
TO ANYONE WHO DOESN’T KNOW MY STORY, I AM A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER OF ONE CHILD. OUR LIVES WERE TORN APART TWO YEARS AGO.
I NEED HELP SO BADLY. EVERYDAY, THINGS ONLY GET WORSE. I CAN’T TAKE ANYMORE.
THIS STARTED AS AN UPDATE FOR MY GIVESENGO. BUT THE PLATFORM ONLY ALLOWS A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF WORDS FOR UPDATES, AND THERE IS JUST TOO MUCH TO SHARE.
******* AN ADDED ‘EDIT’ (4/15/2026) AT THE END OF THIS ARTICLE! URGENT!!!
MY GIVESENGO LINK:
Homeless Mom & Son Forced To Live Apart
PLEASE SHARE THIS LINK, ESPECIALLY WITH ANY PERSON OR ENTITY OR CHURCH OR CHARITY ORGANIZATION THAT YOU MIGHT KNOW OR BE AFFILIATED WITH, THAT CAN POSSIBLY HELP!!
THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO HAS HELPED ME AND MY BOY THROUGH THIS HORRIBLE, TWO-YEAR NIGHTMARE!!!!
I’M GOING TO EXPLAIN WHAT I HAVE BEEN CONSUMED WITH ON A DAILY BASIS, FOR SO MANY MONTHS, SPECIFICALLY, SINCE THE END OF SEPTEMBER, RIGHT UP UNTIL NOW.
I NEED TO EXPLAIN ‘WHY’ I AM STILL IN NEED OF HELP- AND SERIOUS HELP. PLEASE, PLEASE READ TO THE END.
THINGS ARE ABSOLUTELY DIRE RIGHT NOW.
I CANNOT DRIVE MY CAR ANY LONGER. I HAVEN’T HAD CAR INSURANCE IN MANY MONTHS.
AND MY CAR REGISTRATION JUST EXPIRED ON 3/31/2026.
YOU CAN’T RENEW YOUR REGISTRATION WITHOUT PROOF OF CURRENT INSURANCE.
I DON’T HAVE A WORKING CELL PHONE ANYMORE. I COULDN’T PAY MY PAST DUE BILL AND MY PHONE WAS SHUT OFF FOR OVER TWO WEEKS. I JUST RECEIVED AN EMAIL FROM AT&T. THEY CLOSED MY ACCOUNT.
I HAVE HAD THAT PHONE NUMBER FOR ATLEAST 25 YEARS.
AND NOW I CAN’T EVEN MAKE PHONE CALLS ASKING FOR HELP!
MINE AND MY SON’S STORAGE UNIT IS UP FOR AUCTION (AGAIN) THIS THURSDAY, APRIL 16TH.
(WITH HELP FROM FRIENDS, I GOT IT OUT OF AUCTION BACK IN JANUARY- LITERALLY, AFTER THE AUCTION HAD STARTED. I HAD NEVER IN MY LIFE FELT A FEAR LIKE THAT. I WAS HYPERVENTILATING. I WAS SHAKING SO BAD THAT I COULD BARELY HOLD MY PHONE.)
ALL OF OUR BELONGINGS HAVE BEEN IN THIS STORAGE UNIT SINCE OUR EVICTION ON 6/22/2024.
OUR WHOLE LIVES ARE IN THERE. WE HAD A LIFE. A NORMAL LIFE.
WE LEFT WITH ENOUGH BAGS TO FILL MY CAR ON JUNE 22, 2024. THAT IS ALL THAT WE STILL HAVE.
IT IS $1,289.76 TO GET IT OUT OF AUCTION AND BACK TO CURRENT STATUS.
(I CAN PROVIDE PROOF/ BILLS, ETC. OF ALL.)
AND THERE ARE MANY OTHER MAJOR ISSUES…
I’VE GIVEN MORE DETAILS TO ALL OF THIS TOWARDS THE END OF THIS ARTICLE/ UPDATE.
I’M GOING TO START WITH A QUICK SUMMARY OF HOW I GOT HERE, FOR ANYONE WHO HASN’T READ MY STORY. I TRIED TO KEEP THIS AS BRIEF AS I POSSIBLY COULD.
I HAVE BEEN HOMELESS FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS.
I HAVE BEEN APART FROM MY SON FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS!!!
I AM HOPELESS. I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE.
MY CIVIL RIGHTS AND MY CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHTS HAVE BEEN VIOLATED REPEATEDLY IN THE MORRIS COUNTY, NJ COURT SYSTEM AND THE ORANGE COUNTY, NY COURT SYSTEM. I HAVE BEEN THROUGH THE WHOLE 'SYSTEM' IN NJ REGARDING 'HELP' FOR FAMILIES LIKE MINE.... DENIED, DENIED, DENIED....!!!! I HAVE REACHED OUT TO GOVERNMENT OFFICIALS, MY DISTRICT REPS, MY STATE REPS, DOGE, THE LIST GOES ON AND ON AND ON AND ON... NO HELP!!!!!
ME AND MY SON ARE OWED $17,000.00 IN CHILD SUPPORT.
'NJ CHILD SUPPORT SERVICES' IS A JOKE. THEY ARE CORRUPT AND INCOMPETENT!!!
I STARTED A CHANGE.ORG PETITION IN JULY 2025...
Require NY & NJ Child Support Services & Judges to Enforce Court Orders & Bench Warrants!
WOULD YOU PLEASE SIGN IT?
I RAISED MY SON BY MYSELF FOR ALMOST EIGHTEEN YEARS, WITH NO PHYSICAL OR FINANCIAL HELP. I ALWAYS WORKED BUT STRUGGLED FINANCIALLY FOR ALL OF THOSE YEARS. I DO NOT HAVE A COLLEGE DEGREE. I LEFT MY EX-HUSBAND WHEN MY SON WAS ONE YEAR OLD, DUE TO DRUGS & INCARCERATIONS. (I'VE KNOWN HIM MY WHOLE LIFE. LONG HISTORY THERE.) I WAS AWARDED SOLE LEGAL AND PHYSICAL CUSTODY OF MY BOY, WHEN HE WAS ONE YEAR OLD, WITH SUPERVISED VISITATION FOR MY EX-HUSBAND. MY EX-HUSBAND HAS A WEALTHY FAMILY. THEY PUT NO ASSETS IN HIS NAME BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT IT WILL BE SEIZED FOR CHILD SUPPORT. HE LIVES IN HIS PARENT'S MILLION DOLLAR HOME IN NY AND DRIVES HIS DADDY'S RED CORVETTE... I HAVE HAD OVERWHELMING, HARDCORE, PHYSICAL EVIDENCE OF WILLFUL NONPAYMENT OF CHILD SUPPORT FOR YEARS AND YEARS... PICTURES AND A VIDEO OF HIM WORKING FOR CASH, FULL TIME, AND AN ADMISSION IN THE VIDEO BECAUSE HE DIDN'T KNOW THAT HE WAS BEING RECORDED… (THIS WAS RIGHT BEFORE MINE & MY SON’S EVICTION), ALL WHILE NOT PAYING ANY SUPPORT… AND ADMISSIONS FROM HIM THAT HE PURPOSELY CAUSED OUR EVICTION, WHICH LED TO OUR HOMELESSNESS, AND THEN ALIENATION. I HAVE TEXTS AND EMAILS FROM MY EX-HUSBAND AND HIS FIANCE, FROM THIS PAST SUMMER- 2025, STATING THAT HE HAS THE 17K- IN CASH!!!
IN THE FALL OF 2023, I WAS HAVING MAJOR HEALTH ISSUES AND AT THE EXACT SAME TIME, WE LOST OUR HEALTH INSURANCE. I WASN'T WORKING BECAUSE OF THE EXTREME PAIN & I FELL BEHIND ON ALL BILLS, INCLUDING THE RENT.
ON MARCH 1, 2024, I NOT ONLY HAD MY CAR REPOSSESSED IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT, BUT ON THE SAME DAY- WE RECEIVED A WARRANT OF REMOVAL FOR EVICTION.
***** MY SON WAS A JUNIOR IN HIGH SCHOOL.
‘NJ CHILD SUPPORT SERVICES’ WAS AWARE OF LITERALLY EVERYTHING. I WAS IN DAILY CORRESPONDENCE WITH MY CASEWORKER, VIA PHONE AND EMAILS.
THAT DAY, I CALLED THE ‘HOMELESS PREVENTION PROGRAM' AND WAS DENIED HELP BECAUSE I WAS 3 AND A HALF MONTHS BEHIND ON THE RENT. THEIR CUTOFF IS THREE MONTHS. YOU CANNOT MAKE THIS UP.
THAT WEEK, I STARTED CALLING EVERY GOVERNMENT ENTITY, AND CHARITY ORGANIZATIONS...
THE ‘CATHOLIC CHARITIES’ ORGANIZATION TURNED ME DOWN FOR HELP.
I ALSO STARTED THE GIVESENDGO CAMPAIGN. (I HAVE BEEN COMPLETELY TRANSPARENT IN THIS GIVESENDGO, AS TO WHERE THE MONEY HAS GONE. AND UNFORTUNATELY, A LOT OF IT WENT TO HOTEL ROOMS, IN BETWEEN LIVING OUT OF MY CAR, WHICH WAS ABSOLUTE HELL.) THE DONATIONS GAVE US ENOUGH MONEY TO GET OUR CAR OUT OF REPOSSESSION PRETTY QUICKLY- A FEW WEEKS LATER. BUT IT WASN'T ENOUGH TO KEEP US IN OUR APARTMENT. ALTHOUGH, I WORKED OUT A DEAL WITH MY LANDLORD- (WITH THE FREE HELP OF AN ATTORNEY FRIEND- CHRIS BENEVENTO- GOD BLESS HIM!!!) I WAS ABLE TO PAY ABOUT HALF OF WHAT I OWED MY LANDLORD AND HE ALLOWED US TO STAY UNTIL MY SON FINISHED HIS JUNIOR YEAR.
WE WERE EVICTED ON JUNE 22, 2024.
AT THAT TIME, WE WERE OWED 11K IN BACK CHILD SUPPORT. MY EX-HUSBAND KNEW THAT WE WERE FACING EVICTION AND RIDICULED ME FOR THAT AND FOR STARTING THE GIVESENDGO, AMONG OTHER THINGS. I HAVE BEEN HARRASSED BY HIM AND HIS FAMILY SINCE I LEFT HIM IN 2007. THIS WAS ALL WHILE HE WAS WORKING- FULL TIME, FOR CASH, AND NOT PAYING ANYTHING.
'NJ CHILD SUPPORT SERVICES' WAS AWARE OF ALL OF THIS.
WE HAVE HAD TWELVE CHILD SUPPORT HEARINGS SINCE OUR EVICTION.
SEVEN DIFFERENT JUDGES.
IN MORRIS COUNTY, NJ AND ORANGE COUNTY, NY.
ZERO DOLLARS ORDERED TO BE PAID.
(THE SEVEN JUDGES ARE LISTED IN MY CHANGE.ORG PETITION.) ALL OF THE HIDEOUS DETAILS AND THE WHOLE SHOCKING STORY ARE IN MY PETITION.
LEGAL SERVICES OF NJ REFUSED TO HELP ME IN THE NJ HEARINGS.
LEGAL SERVICES OF HUDSON VALLEY REFUSED TO HELP ME IN THE NY HEARINGS.
****** INFACT, LEGAL SERVICES OF HUDSON VALLEY INSTEAD REPRESENTED MY EX-HUSBAND AND GOT THE CASE DISMISSED A FEW MONTHS AGO.
NOT ONE JUDGE, IN ANY OF THOSE HEARINGS, READ MY STATEMENTS OR REVIEWED MY OVERWHELMING EVIDENCE. NOT ONE. AND THEY NEVER LET ME SPEAK.
***** I HAVE HAD ZERO FAIR HEARINGS.
ON AUGUST 8, 2024, I HAD TO ASK A FAMILY IN OUR TOWN TO TAKE IN MY SON, SO THAT HE COULD START HIS SENIOR YEAR IN HIGH SCHOOL, WITH SHELTER AND STABILITY.
…WHILE I LIVED OUT OF MY CAR, WITH OUR CAT, AND COUCH TO COUCH… AND HOTEL ROOMS WHEN I HAD ENOUGH MONEY FROM DONATIONS.
THIS WAS DEVASTATING.
I HAVE NEVER GOTTEN MY BOY BACK.
IT ALL GETS WORSE. I SUFFER FROM PTSD, DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY FROM CHILDHOOD PHYSICAL ABUSE BY BOTH PARENTS (UNTIL THE AGE OF 16), WITNESSING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE THROUGHOUT MY WHOLE CHILDHOOD AND EVEN TRYING TO BREAK IT UP MYSELF, KEEP MY LITTLE BROTHER AND SISTER SHIELDED, AND CALLING THE COPS WHEN I REACHED HIGH SCHOOL AGE (I ABSOLUTELY BELIEVED THAT THEY WERE GOING TO K!LL EACH OTHER), AND AWARE OF EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIRS (I PHYSICALLY WITNESSED AN AFFAIR WHEN I WAS 10 YRS OLD).
AND PHYSICAL ABUSE INTO MY ADULTHOOD, BY MY MOTHER (1992, 1998, 2012) AND MY BROTHER (2012).
AROUND 2011, I NOTICED A CHANGE IN BEHAVIOR IN MY LARGE FAMILY, AND HOW THEY WERE TREATING ME. I SOMEHOW HAD BECOME ‘THE SCAPEGOAT’ AND WAS BEING GOSSIPED ABOUT, LIED ABOUT…
ALL WHILE I’M JUST TRYING TO RAISE MY SON BY MYSELF… AND ALSO CONSTANTLY BATTLING MY EX-HUSBAND AND HIS FAMILY IN THE COURT SYSTEM.
NOTHING I DID EVER SEEMED TO BE GOOD ENOUGH.
UNFORTUNATELY, THIS MISTREATMENT NEVER STOPPED. IT GOT WORSE.
HONESTLY, ANY MISTAKES THAT I MADE OR ANY OF MY SINS- THEY DIDN’T EVEN COME CLOSE TO THE MISTAKES OR SINS OF THE FAMILY MEMBERS THROWING STONES. ‘PEOPLE WHO LIVE IN GLASS HOUSES….’ THIS HAS BEEN EXTREMELY PAINFUL. I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND IT. I HONESTLY DO NOT KNOW WHAT IT IS LIKE TO BE LOVED UNCONDITIONALLY BY MY OWN FAMILY. (I STILL LOVE ALL OF THEM & I WOULD NEVER DO THIS TO ANOTHER HUMAN BEING, LET ALONE MY OWN FAMILY.)
IF YOU HAVE NEVER EXPERIENCED THE THINGS THAT I MENTIONED, YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW THIS AFFECTS A PERSON- EVERY DAY OF THEIR LIFE.
AND TO THE HATERS THAT ALWAYS COME AT ME, INCLUDING FAMILY MEMBERS- NO, THIS HAS NEVER BEEN ABOUT ME ‘DWELLING ON THE ABUSE’ OR ‘DWELLING ON THE PAST’.
THE PROBLEM IS THAT THE ABUSE STILL HASN’T STOPPED.
I WALKED AWAY FROM MY WHOLE FAMILY IN THE FALL OF 2023. I WAS 49 YEARS OLD. I ALSO MADE THE DECISION TO SPEAK OPENLY ABOUT THE DECADES OF ABUSE, IN MY GIVESENDGO, IN MARCH 2024.
MY WHOLE FAMILY DISOWNED ME AFTER THAT. (NOT THAT THEY WOULD HAVE HELPED ME ANYWAY.)
NONE OF THIS WAS EASY OR TAKEN LIGHTLY. WHETHER I WAS RIGHT OR WRONG FOR SPEAKING PUBLICLY ABOUT IT, IT’S A HUGE PART OF THIS WHOLE SITUATION. (I HAVE SINCE REACHED OUT TO MY MOTHER AND MY FATHER, STARTING ABOUT A YEAR AGO, TO APOLOGIZE FOR HURTING THEM. I HAVE TOLD THEM THAT I MISS THEM & LOVE THEM. I NEVER HEARD BACK FROM MY FATHER. MY MOTHER JUST RECENTLY EMAILED ME, BUT BASICALLY TOLD ME ONCE AGAIN, THAT I’M A HORRIBLE PERSON. AND WELL, THAT IS JUST NOT THE TRUTH & IT’S NOT OK.)
I HAVEN'T SEEN MY PARENTS OR MY SIBLINGS IN ALMOST THREE YEARS.
I DON’T KNOW IF I WILL EVER SEE THEM AGAIN.
AND EVERY FAMILY MEMBER EITHER HAS ME BLOCKED OR HASN’T REPLIED TO COUNTLESS TEXTS THAT I’VE SENT, REGARDING MY SON. (MORE ON THAT FURTHER AHEAD)
I AM REALLY JUST SO SICK OF GETTING JUDGED MORE HARSHLY FOR SPEAKING ABOUT THE ABUSE, THAN THE ACTUAL ABUSERS ARE JUDGED FOR THE ABUSE!
AND HEARTBROKEN FOR BEING COMPLETELY SHUNNED FOR MY REACTION TO THEIR ABUSE, WHICH IS STILL ONGOING, AS I WILL EXPLAIN.
IF THERE WAS NO ABUSE, THERE WOULD BE NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT!
AND IF THEY HAD HELPED ME, ALL OF THIS WOULD HAVE STOPPED AT THAT POINT.
FORGIVENESS JUST DOESN’T APPLY TO ME.
I HAVE HAD A LOT TO FORGIVE IN MY LIFE. THINGS THAT ARE AWFUL. THINGS THAT CHANGED ME. THINGS THAT BROKE ME. THINGS THAT AFFECTED ME IN MY ADULTHOOD AND DEFINATELY HINDERED ME AND CHANGED THE COURSE THAT I BELIEVE I WAS MEANT TO GO.
I AM NOT BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE FOR MY MISTAKES, BUT IT HAS ALL PLAYED A PART. YEARS OF THERAPY. AND YEARS OF FORGIVING AND MOVING ON, OVER AND OVER, ESPECIALLY FOR MY SON’S SAKE… UNTIL IT JUST GOT TO BE TOO MUCH.
(I ALSO REACHED OUT TO MY FAMILY AFTER I HAD SPENT A FEW NIGHTS IN MY CAR WITH MY CAT LAST YEAR (AROUND MAY 2025), OUT OF COMPLETE DESPERATION AND UTTER FEAR… AND IN PHYSICAL PAIN (51 YEARS OLD WITH A BAD BACK AND EXTREME MENOPAUSE SYMPTOMS), NOT HAVING SHOWERED OR BRUSHED MY TEETH, ETC….
NO ONE CARED. NO ONE REPLIED. NO ONE PICKED UP. NO ONE REACHED OUT. THERE’S JUST NO WORDS. THIS IS ONLY BECAUSE I SPOKE ABOUT THE ABUSE. I COULD NEVER DO THIS TO MY ADULT CHILD. EVER. YOU COULDN’T PAY ME. OR ANY FAMILY MEMBER. OR ANY FRIEND!!!! I WENT ON TO SPEND MANY MORE NIGHTS IN MY CAR, AFTER REACHING OUT.)
ON DECEMBER 8, 2024, MY SON INFORMED ME THAT HE WAS GOING 'NO CONTACT' WITH ME. (HE WAS A SENIOR IN HIGH SCHOOL. BUT HE HAD TURNED 18. HE WAS STILL LIVING WITH THE FAMILY IN OUR TOWN.)
THIS CAME OUT OF NOWHERE. NO ABUSE. NOTHING LIKE THAT. INFACT, I BROKE THE CYCLE OF ABUSE IN MY FAMILY. THIS WAS SHOCKING. I AM STILL IN SHOCK. MY WORLD IS SHATTERED. MY SON IS MY LIFE. MY EVERYTHING!!!! MY REASON FOR LIVING!!! MY PURPOSE!!! BEING A MOM IS MY IDENTITY!!!!! WE WERE BEST FRIENDS. AND ANYONE WHO KNOWS ME AND MY SON, KNOWS THIS. WE WERE INSEPARABLE. WE NEVER HAD AN ARGUMENT. HE CALLED ME HIS HERO.
I KNOW THAT MY SON HAS BEEN BRAINWASHED BY MY BROTHER'S WIFE. … AND MY FAMILY AND MY EX-HUSBAND AND HIS FAMILY.
I HAD NEVER KEPT MY SON FROM SEEING ANY OF THEM. (IRONICALLY) THE SEEDS WERE BEING PLANTED HIS WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE.
IT TOOK ONLY FOUR SHORT MONTHS OF US LIVING APART, FOR MY SON TO BE COMPLETELY ALIENATED FROM ME.
MY SIL TOOK MY PLACE FOR EVERYTHING. SHE BECAME HIS EMERGENCY CONTACT. SHE BASICALLY BECAME HIS MOTHER.
IT HAS BEEN A YEAR AND FOUR MONTHS. STILL- NO CONTACT.
I AM HEARTBROKEN. I AM HOPELESS. I HAVE NOTHING.
I HAVE SEEN MY SON ONLY TWICE SINCE EARLY DECEMBER 2024.
AND THOSE TWO TIMES WERE NOT TIME SPENT TOGETHER. I HAVE NOT SPOKEN TO HIM ON THE PHONE. HE DOESN’T RETURN MY VOICEMAILS, TEXTS… HE’S REPLIED TO MAYBE FOUR EMAILS SINCE THAT TIME.
SINCE EARLY DECEMBER 2024, I HAVE SPENT EVERY SINGLE HOLIDAY AND MY BIRTHDAY, MY SON’S BIRTHDAY… COMPLETELY ALONE.
AFTER MY SON GRADUATED HIGH SCHOOL, LAST JUNE 2025, HE MOVED IN WITH MY SISTER INLAW AND MY ABUSIVE, ALCOHOLIC BROTHER.
NO ONE TOLD ME.
I FOUND OUT, BY CHANCE, THE FOLLOWING MONTH.
MY SIL HAS USED COERCIVE CONTROL TO TURN MY WHOLE FAMILY AGAINST ME, ONE BY ONE THROUGH THE YEARS, SINCE SHE GOT SERIOUS WITH MY BROTHER, STARTING AROUND 2011. THEY STARTED DATING IN 2007, WHEN MY SON WAS ONE YEAR OLD. I HAD NEVER, EVER HAD A PROBLEM WITH ANY FAMILY MEMBER BEFORE THIS. I WAS EXTREMELY CLOSE WITH EVERY SINGLE FAMILY MEMBER IN MY VERY LARGE FAMILY.
AND MY BROTHER WAS MY BEST FRIEND FOR MY ENTIRE LIFE.
I WAS AT EVERY FAMILY FUNCTION, WHICH, IN MY FAMILY WAS VERY OFTEN, AND HUNG OUT WITH FAMILY MEMBERS ALL OF THE TIME. SLOWLY, THEY WERE BEING TURNED AWAY FROM ME. YOU CAN’T IMAGINE THAT PAIN.
“PARENTAL ALIENATION HAPPENS WHEN A TOXIC PERSON PULLS THE HEART OF A CHILD AWAY FROM A PARENT WITH THE INTENT OF CREATING DETACHMENT AND RESENTMENT. PEOPLE WHO ENGAGE IN PARENTAL ALIENATION OFTEN EXPLOIT NORMAL PARENT/ CHILD DISCORD…. AT THEIR CORE, A PARENTAL ALIENATOR IS JEALOUS OF THE RELATIONSHIP THE CHILD HAD WITH THEIR PARENT AND WILL GO TO ELABORATE LENGTHS TO DESTROY IT.”
***** MY SIL HAS SINCE BROUGHT TWO SEPARATE CRIMINAL CHARGES AGAINST ME. (MORRIS COUNTY SUPERIOR COURT AND TOWNSHIP MUNICIPAL COURT)
BOTH ARE FALSE ALLEGATIONS/FALSE CHARGES. (THEY ARE BOTH BASED ON THE SAME ALLEGATIONS.) BOTH FALSE CHARGES ARE FOR ‘ONLINE HARASSMENT’. THESE ARE BOTH DARVO CASES.
I HAVE ONLY SPOKEN ABOUT MY LIFE.
I HAVE ONLY STATED FACTS.
MY WORDS ARE CONSTITUTIONALLY PROTECTED.
I HAVE BEEN TOLD BY THE COURT, THAT I AM NOT ALLOWED TO SPEAK ABOUT THIS.
THAT IS UNCONSTITUTIONAL.
AND BECAUSE OF WHAT I AM ABOUT TO STATE, I NEED FINANCIAL HELP— BECAUSE OF THIS SITUATION!!!!!
EVERYDAY, PEOPLE USE GOFUNDME AND GIVESENDO, ETC TO RAISE MONEY FOR LEGAL COUNSEL, AND OBVIOUSLY EXPLAIN THE LEGAL SITUATION!!!!!
THIS IS NOT HARASSMENT.
AND I NEED SERIOUS HELP.
JBWS (DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ADVOCATES) REFUSED TO HELP ME REGARDING THE VASPA IN SUPERIOR COURT, EVEN THOUGH THEY HAVE HELPED ME QUITE A FEW TIMES OVER THE PAST FIFTEEN YEARS. (A VASPA IS BASICALLY A PERMANENT RESTRAINING ORDER, FOR ANYONE THAT CAN'T GET A RESTRAINING ORDER BECAUSE YOU HAVE NEVER RESIDED TOGETHER.)
AND LEGAL SERVICES OF NJ REFUSED TO HELP ME WITH THIS CASE.
(BOTH JBWS AND LEGAL SERVICES OF NJ, ARE SUPPOSED TO BE WELL TRAINED AS TO THE SIGNS OF NOT ONLY PTSD, BUT ALSO ‘COERCIVE CONTROL’ AND EVERYTHING THAT GOES ALONG WITH THAT. IE. TRIANGULATION, GASLIGHTING, ISOLATION, NARCISSISM, ALIENATION OF A CHILD/ PARENT RELATIONSHIP, FALSE ALLEGATIONS, USING POLICE OFFICERS AND THE COURT SYSTEM AS A WEAPON, FINANCIAL ABUSE, PSYCHOLOGICAL WARFARE, FLYING MONKEYS, EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION, INTIMIDATION, THE LIST GOES ON…. ALL OF WHICH APPLY HERE- AND MORE.)
I EVEN QUOTED A LARGE PORTION FROM LEGAL SERVICES OF NJ’S OWN ARTICLE ON THEIR OWN WEBSITE LSNJLAW.ORG, TITLED, "INVISIBLE CHAINS: UNDERSTANDING COERCIVE CONTROL”, IN MY LENGTHY STATEMENT/ REBUTTAL.
HERE IS JUST A SMALL PORTION OF WHAT I QUOTED FROM THE ARTICLE: “Coercive control may include, but shall not be limited to… isolating the person from… relatives, transportation, medical care, or other source of support… depriving the person of basic necessities… monitoring the person’s movements, communications, daily behavior, finances, economic resources, or access to services… compelling the person by force, threat, or intimidation… threatening to make or making baseless reports to the police, courts, the Division of Child Protection and Permanency (DCPP) within the Department of Children and Families… or other parties… threatening to deny or interfere with an individual’s custody or parenting time, other than through enforcement of a valid custody arrangement or court order pursuant to current law…”
******* MY SIL WOUND UP GETTING A ‘FINAL VASPA ORDER’, OUT OF DEFAULT, IN JANUARY, BECAUSE I DID NOT APPEAR.
(I INFORMED THE COURT BEFOREHAND THAT I COULDN'T APPEAR, AND I EXPLAINED WHY. I COULDN'T AFFORD THE SIX HOUR ROUND TRIP- I’VE BEEN STAYING WITH A FRIEND ‘TEMPORARILY’ WHO LIVES THREE HOURS AWAY. AND, I ALSO WAS NOT EVEN CLOSE TO BEING FINISHED WITH MY STATEMENT/ REBUTTAL AND FINDING ALL OF MY EVIDENCE.)
(THIS IS THE ONLY COURT MATTER THAT I HAVE EVER LOST IN MY ENTIRE LIFE- AND OUT OF DEFAULT, BECAUSE I COULD NOT APPEAR AND WAS NOT READY, BECAUSE OF THE NUMBER OF OUTRIGHT LIES THAT I HAD TO PROVE WERE LIES.)
****** MY SON LIVES WITH HER.
IT TOOK ME MONTHS (SINCE SEPTEMBER) OF WORKING ON THIS DAILY, TO COMPLETE.
I JUST COMPLETED IT.
MY STATEMENT/REBUTTAL IS 108 PAGES, AND THAT IS NOT INCLUDING ALL OF MY EVIDENCE.
THE REASON WHY THIS TOOK ME SO LONG IS BECAUSE OF HER ROUGHLY 100 FALSE STATEMENTS MADE IN HER COUNTLESS VISITS TO THE POLICE STATION AND THE COURTHOUSE. LITERALLY EVERY SINGLE WORD THAT SHE STATED WAS EITHER AN OUTRIGHT LIE, OR SOMETHING TAKEN COMPLETELY OUT OF CONTEXT, OR MISSING CRUCIAL CONTEXT- THAT HARMS HER, OR WAS EXTREMELY MISLEADING… (SHE ALSO WENT ON TO MOCK ME. AND THEN MOCKED ME- WITH A POLICE OFFICER- FOR COUNTLESS MINUTES- ALL ON THE BODYCAM FOOTAGE THAT I OBTAINED WHEN I REQUESTED ALL DISCOVERY. MOCKING MY COMPLETE AND UTTER DESPAIR AND AGONY!!!!!!!!!)
***** AND REGARDING THE VASPA, SHE EVEN ASKS THE OFFICER IF I WOULD EVER SEE THE BODYCAM VIDEOS OR READ HER LENGTHY, COUNTLESS STATEMENTS.
HE REPLIES TO HER THAT I WOULD HAVE TO REQUEST IT ALL.
SHE THEN SAYS TO THE OFFICER, “WELL, SHE'S NOT THAT SMART. SHE WON'T DO THAT.”
OH, BUT I AM THAT SMART, MY LOVING SISTER INLAW.
THIS WOMAN HAS MY CHILD.
THIS HAS BEEN BEYOND OVERWHELMING, TIME CONSUMING… AND SERIOUSLY TRAUMATIC TO EVEN WORK ON. I HAVE WITNESSES TO THIS. FULL ON FIGHT OR FLIGHT MODE, EXTREME PANIC ATTACKS, NO SLEEP, OR SLEEPING FOR FULL DAYS- INTO THE SECOND NIGHT AND THIRD DAY- I HAVE NEVER DONE THAT IN MY ENTIRE LIFE AND I DON’T WISH THAT ON MY WORST ENEMY. COMPLETE AND UTTER DESPAIR…. AND SHAKING, LOSING MY HAIR, CRYING UNCONTROLLABLY, WAILING, EYE TWITCHES, MIGRAINES, NAUSEA… PULLING COUNTLESS ALL- NIGHTER’S, NOT HAVING TIME TO EVEN SHOWER OR BRUSH MY TEETH…
THIS WOMAN HAS MY CHILD.
AND THIS WOMAN HATES MY GUTS.
FOR THE RECORD:
I HAVE NEVER BEEN ARRESTED IN MY ENTIRE LIFE. I HAVE NEVER BEEN A CRIMINAL. I AM NOT A THIEF. I AM NOT VIOLENT. I AM NOT A DRUG ADDICT OR AN ALCOHOLIC OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT….
ALSO, SINCE OUR EVICTION, MY EX-HUSBAND AND ONE OF HIS ‘COHORTS’ HAD ME CHARGED WITH FALSE CHARGES. THEY WERE BOTH EVENTUALLY DISMISSED. I WON BOTH CASES.
BUT THEY ALL HAVE PUT ME THROUGH ABSOLUTE HELL!!!!!!!
I HAVE BEEN CONSUMED IN COURT CASES. UTTERLY CONSUMED.
IT IS ALL ABUSE.
THE UNNECESSARY, OVERWHELMING, TRAUMATIC, LABORIOUS WORK THAT I HAVE PUT INTO THESE TWO CHARGES FROM MY SISTER INLAW ALONE, HAS KEPT ME HOMELESS.
AND KEPT ME APART FROM MY SON.
THIS WAS THE INTENTION.
AND SHE KNEW ABOUT THE TWELVE CHILD SUPPORT HEARINGS.
AND SHE KNEW ABOUT THE TWO FALSE CHARGES FROM MY EX-HUSBAND & HIS ‘COHORT’ (THAT WERE DISMISSED).
SHE KNOWS SO MANY DETAILS ABOUT MY LIFE AND MY POSTS… BECAUSE ‘SHE IS STALKING ME’.
****** AND AS THE ABUSED PERSON- I AM NOT SUPPOSED TO TALK ABOUT IT. ANY OF IT. I HAVE BEEN WARNED BY THE COURTS.
THERE ARE NO THREATS HERE. NO NAMES NAMED. NO PHYSICAL HARM. NO STALKING. NO ASKING ANYONE ELSE TO HARM ANYONE OR STALK ANYONE.
NO DEFAMATION- BECAUSE THIS IS ALL THE TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!! (UNLIKE FALSE, MALICIOUS CLAIMS ABOUT ME, WHICH IS ALSO PERJURY!)
THIS IS ALL ABUSE.
THE JUDICIAL SYSTEM ABUSES.
THEY VICTIM SHAME.
THEY REWARD THE ABUSERS.
THEY SILENCE SURVIVORS.
THERE IS NO JUSTICE. NO INTEGRITY. NO FAIRNESS.
NO UPHOLDING OF OATHS. NO UPHOLDING OF MISSION STATEMENTS. IT’S ALL ABOUT POWER AND MONEY. THE ‘SYSTEM’ IS CORRUPT.
AND ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU NEED TO ASK FOR FINANCIAL HELP- BECAUSE YOU’RE HOMELESS- DURING ALL OF THIS- AND BECAUSE OF ALL OF THIS!!!!!!!!
THIS IS UNCONSTITUTIONAL.
AMERICANS USE CAMPAIGN PLATFORMS EVERYDAY, SUCH AS GOFUNDME AND GIVESENDGO, TO RAISE MONEY FOR LEGAL FEES. DO YOU THINK THESE PEOPLE DON’T TALK ABOUT THE CASE????? DON’T TALK ABOUT ‘WHY’ THEY NEED HELP FOR THE COURT CASE OR WHAT THE CHARGES ARE OR WHAT THEY ARE FIGHTING FOR, ETC???? OFCOURSE, THEY TALK ABOUT IT!!!!
INFACT, I HAD TO DO THIS REGARDING MY EX-HUSBAND IN 2015! WANT A GOOD READ???? HERE’S THE LINK!
Legal Fees for Working Single Mom
NOW, I’M NOT ASKING FOR MONEY TOWARDS LEGAL FEES. BUT ONLY BECAUSE IT’S JUST NOT ATTAINABLE!!!! BECAUSE I AM HOMELESS AND IN NEED OF SO MUCH RIGHT NOW!!!! I HAVE LOST SO MUCH- AND AM ABOUT TO LOSE ALL OF MINE AND MY SON’S BELONGINGS NOW!!!!!! BUT HONESTLY, IF I THOUGHT I COULD ALSO GET ENOUGH HELP TO GO TOWARDS LEGAL REPRESENTATION, I WOULD ABSOLUTELY ASK FOR THAT!!!!!
BUT, IF I WAS TO RAISE ENOUGH MONEY TO GET ME OUT OF HOMELESSNESS AND GET MY LIFE BACK, WITH EXTRA TO SPARE???
YES, I WOULD ABSOLUTELY USE IT FOR LEGAL REPRESENTATION FOR THESE TWO BOGUS CHARGES!!!!!!!!
THIS SITUATION- THESE TWO CASES SPECIFICALLY- HAVE EVERY SINGLE THING TO DO WITH WHY I STILL NEED HELP AND EVEN MORE HELP NOW!!!!!!!!!!!! I HAVE HAD NO TIME FOR ANYTHING ELSE!!!!!!
AND THIS HAS SERIOUSLY AFFECTED MY HEALTH. I HAVE BEEN COMPLETELY OVERWHELMED AND CONSUMED BY ALL OF THIS!!!!! THESE TWO SEPARATE CHARGES BY HER (SUPERIOR COURT AND MUNICIPAL COURT) HAVE BEEN THE MOST TIME CONSUMING COURT CASES THAT I HAVE EVER DEALT WITH IN MY LIFE.
ALSO, REGARDING THE VASPA, I WAS TOLD THAT I’M NOT ALLOWED TO TALK ABOUT MY SISTER INLAW OR THIS CASE- TO MY OWN FAMILY!!!!!!!!
IS THIS RUSSIA?????? IS THIS CHINA??????
AS I STATED IN MY STATEMENT/ REBUTTAL:
NO COURT OR JUDGE IS GOING TO TELL ME WHAT I CAN TALK ABOUT OR WHAT I CAN SHARE WITH MY OWN FAMILY. MY OWN FLESH AND BLOOD.
NOT HER FAMILY- MINE.
ESPECIALLY MY OWN SON, MY MOTHER, MY FATHER AND MY SISTER.
AND HONESTLY, EVEN MY OWN FRIENDS!!!!!
THIS IS ALL UNCONSTITUTIONAL.
(OBVIOUSLY, I’M NOT GOING TO REACH OUT TO MY SIL OR MY BROTHER.)
THIS IS MY LIFE!!!!! I’M TALKING ABOUT MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!
WHAT ELSE DO I HAVE??? MY VOICE IS BASICALLY THE LAST THING THAT I HAVE LEFT, THE LAST THING THAT HASN’T BEEN TAKEN FROM ME!!!!!!!!!! DO THEY WANT TO ISOLATE ME EVEN FURTHER????!!!!!!!
TAKE AWAY EVERY LAST WAY OF HAVING ANY KIND OF A SUPPORT SYSTEM??????
FURTHER FINANCIALLY ABUSE ME, BY MAKING ME TAKE THE TIME TO NOT ONLY DEFEND MYSELF, BUT AGAINST ABOUT 100 FALSE CLAIMS, THAT I NOW HAVE TO PROVE ARE FALSE, BY MAKING ME BASICALLY A CRIMINAL WITH THIS VASPA- BY DEFAULT- BECAUSE I’M POOR AND HOMELESS AND BECAUSE JBWS AND LSNJ AREN’T SKILLED ENOUGH- AS THEY’RE SUPPOSED TO BE- TO RECOGNIZE ALL OF THESE COUNTLESS PATTERNS OF ABUSE, WHICH I EXPLAINED TO THEM THOROUGHLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
NOW I NEED TO GET THIS BOGUS VASPA DISMISSED…
I HAVE TO STILL FIGHT BOTH COURT MATTERS, WITH NO MONEY, NO PHONE, I CAN’T DRIVE, ON THE VERGE OF LOSING ALL OF MINE AND MY SON’S BELONGINGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHAT SHOULD I DO????? SHOULD I ROB A BANK???????
I’M TELLING YOU, IT IS BY THE GRACE OF GOD, AND MY LORD AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST, THAT I DID NOT WIND UP A THIEF, A DRUG ADDICT, AN ALCOHOLIC, A PROSTITUTE… GO DOWN THE LIST!!!!!!
I ALSO CITED A RECENT COURT CASE IN MY STATEMENT/ REBUTTAL. IT WAS HIGHLY PUBLICIZED JUST LAST MONTH- MARCH 2026. THIS CASE WAS A BIG WIN FOR ‘FREE SPEECH’. THIS WAS ALSO A ‘DARVO’ CASE.
CASE NAME: COOLEY V. FOREMAN AKA AFROMAN (ADAMS COUNTY COURT OF COMMON PLEAS)
ADAMS COUNTY, OHIO
DOCKET/ CASE NUMBER: CVH 20230069
(AFROMAN IS A RAPPER/ SINGER/ ENTERTAINER. HE HAD A HUGE HIT IN THE YEAR 2000.)
The legal battle began after an August 2022 raid on Afroman's home in Winchester, Ohio.
The Raid: Deputies from the Adams County Sheriff's Office executed a search warrant for suspected drug trafficking and kidnapping. The Outcome: No drugs or victims were found, and no charges were ever filed against Afroman. The Retaliation: Afroman used his home security footage to create music videos and social media content mocking the officers. Notable songs included "Lemon Pound Cake" (inspired by a deputy eyeing a cake in his kitchen) and "Will You Help Me Repair My Door”.
(HYSTERICAL AND BRILLIANT.)
ACLU.ORG STATES: “After a musician used footage of officers searching his home in music videos criticizing that search and the officers more broadly, they sued him for damages and asked the court to order him to stop speaking about them. The ACLU of Ohio and the ACLU filed an amicus brief in support of the musician’s motion to dismiss the suit, arguing that the lawsuit sought to silence criticism in violation of the First Amendment.”
“I didn’t win," Afroman said. "America won. America still has freedom of speech. It’s still for the people by the people. Afroman went on to say, "This whole thing is their fault. They broke into my house, put themselves on my video cameras, and into my music career. With my freedom of speech, I had the right to talk about the events going on in my life, with my family, with my friends, and with my fans."
DURING THE TRIAL, WHILE AFROMAN WAS ON THE STAND, THE OPPOSING LAWYER ASKS HIM IF HE’LL STOP TALKING ABOUT THE COPS WHO RAIDED HIS HOME. AFROMAN REPLIES , “UNDER THE CIRCUMSTANCES THAT I GOT FREEDOM OF SPEECH … AFTER THEY RUN AROUND MY HOUSE WITH GUNS AND KICK DOWN MY DOOR… I GOT THE RIGHT TO USE MY FREEDOM OF SPEECH… YES, I DO … AND I THINK I’M A SPORT FOR DOING SO. CAUSE I DON’T GO TO THEIR HOUSE , KICK DOWN THEIR DOORS, FLIP THEM OFF ON THEIR SURVEILLANCE CAMERAS, THEN TRY TO PLAY THE VICTIM AND SUE THEM. ” THEN THE LAWYER ASKS AFROMAN ABOUT A FEMALE COP THAT WAS EMOTIONAL IN COURT (CROCODILE TEARS). HE ASKS, “YOU KNEW SHE WAS UPSET?” AFROMAN REPLIED , “ JUST LIKE SHE KNEW I WAS UPSET WHEN SHE WAS STANDING IN FRONT OF MY KIDS READY TO SHOOT ME . UH, JUST LIKE SHE KNEW I WAS UPSET WHEN SHE CUT MY CAMERAS… BUT I’M NOT A PERSON. SHE IS. SO, I’M SORRY FOR BEING A VICTIM… LET’S TALK ABOUT THE PREDATORS…. SO ALL OF THIS IS THEIR FAULT, AND NOW THEY WANNA SUE ME FOR THEIR MISTAKE. ”
LAWYER ASKS, “BUT YOU’RE STILL POSTING STUFF ABOUT IT? IS THERE ANYTHING THAT COULD CHANGE YOUR MIND ABOUT WHAT YOU’RE DOING TO THESE DEPUTIES?”
AFROMAN, “IS THERE ANYTHING THAT CAN CHANGE MY MIND ABOUT THE FACT THAT THEY SHOULDN’T HAVE BEEN THERE IN THE FIRST PLACE? IS THERE ANYTHING THAT CAN CHANGE MY MIND ABOUT HOW MY MONEY SHOULDN'T HAVE BEEN TOUCHED IN THE FIRST PLACE? NO.”
OPPOSING LAWYER, “THAT’S ALL THE QUESTIONS I HAVE.”
****** THE MUNICIPAL CHARGE HAS BEEN RESCHEDULED- AGAIN, THANK GOD, AS PER MY REQUEST. I’VE BEEN ABLE TO GET COUNTLESS ADJOURNMENTS AND I AM SINCERELY GRATEFUL FOR THAT.
THE NEXT COURT DATE FOR THE TRIAL IS IN TWO WEEKS.
I HAVE A PUBLIC DEFENDER FOR THAT AND HE IS ASKING THE JUDGE TO WAIVE THE $200 PUBLIC DEFENDER FEE. GOD BLESS HIM!!!!!!!
BUT I HAVE BEEN ABUSED BY THE WHOLE 'SYSTEM'.
THIS WHOLE SYSTEM DESTROYED A FAMILY UNIT- ME AND MY SON.
I AM NOT OK. NONE OF THIS IS OK.
******* (I ALSO HAD AN EXTREMELY TRAUMATIC INCIDENT IN AUGUST 2024. I WAS SEXUALLY HARASSED FOR A DURATION OF THREE DAYS AND PROPOSITIONED FOR PROSTITUTION, DURING MY THREE DAY STAY AT THE HILTON GARDEN INN- WAYNE, NJ, BY AN EMPLOYEE. I FILED A POLICE REPORT RIGHT AWAY. I RETAINED A LAWYER OVER A YEAR AGO, TRYING TO SUE THE HOTEL…. AND, I COULDN'T EVEN GET JUSTICE FOR THAT!!!!!! I HAVE TONS OF EVIDENCE!! THE STORY IS DISGUSTING! I ALSO COMPLAINED RIGHT AWAY AND I WAS FULLY REIMBURSED AND THE EMPLOYEE WAS FIRED. I CAN STILL TRY AGAIN WITH ANOTHER LAWYER, BUT I HAVEN'T HAD TIME!!! MY WINDOW IS ONLY UNTIL THIS AUGUST!! I JUST CANNOT WIN!!!!!)
SO, FOR MANY MONTHS NOW, I HAVE BEEN STAYING WITH AN OLD FRIEND, 'TEMPORARILY'. HE LIVES THREE HOURS AWAY FROM MY BOY AND MY 'HOME'. I HAD NO OTHER OPTIONS.
BUT I AM TRULY GRATEFUL. GOD BLESS HIM!!!
BUT I HAVE OVERSTAYED MY STAY. I OVERSTAYED IT MONTHS AGO.
THIS MAN HAS A LONGTERM GIRLFRIEND. (GOD BLESS HER, TOO!!!)
AND HE HAS CHILDREN THAT STAY HERE EVERY OTHER WEEKEND.
THIS IS NOT MY HOME.
I NEED TO GO ‘HOME’.
I MISS 'HOME' SO BADLY. I MISS MY BOY BEYOND WORDS. I MISS MY LIFE. ALL I DO IS CRY. FROM THE PITS OF MY SOUL.
I AM ROTTING AWAY.
THESE ARE THE DETAILS OF HOW DIRE THINGS HAVE BECOME:
MY CELL PHONE HAD BEEN SHUT OFF FOR TWO WEEKS, BECAUSE I COULDN'T AFFORD TO PAY THE BILL. WELL, I JUST RECEIVED AN EMAIL FROM AT&T THAT STATES THAT MY ACCOUNT IS NOW PERMANENTLY CLOSED. I HAVE HAD THAT PHONE NUMBER FOR AT LEAST 25 YEARS.
GONE. NO CELL PHONE. NO COMMUNICATION.
THE AMOUNT PAST DUE WAS $250. I JUST RECEIVED A ‘FINAL BILL’, AND THE AMOUNT IS NOW $350. I GUESS THEY’RE CHARGING ME FOR THE AMOUNT OF TIME THAT IT WAS SHUT OFF! ITS UNBELIEVABLE. AND THEY SENT NO WARNING EMAIL THAT ON SUCH AND SUCH DATE MY ACCOUNT WOULD BE CLOSED!!!! I HAD NO IDEA!!!! SO MUCH FOR BEING A LOYAL AT&T CUSTOMER SINCE LITERALLY MY VERY FIRST CELL PHONE- IN 2001!!!!!!
I HAVE HAD NO CAR INSURANCE FOR MANY MONTHS.
MY CAR REGISTRATION JUST EXPIRED ON 3/31.
YOU CANNOT RENEW IT WITHOUT PROOF OF CURRENT INSURANCE.
NOW, I CANNOT DRIVE AT ALL. I AM PETRIFIED.
MY CAR HAS ALSO BEEN OUT FOR REPOSSESSION- AGAIN- FOR OVER A YEAR.
ALL OF MINE AND MY SON'S BELONGINGS- AND I MEAN EVERYTHING- OUR WHOLE LIFE- HAS BEEN IN A STORAGE UNIT, SINCE OUR EVICTION ON 6/22/2024.
IT IS AN EXTRA LARGE, DOUBLE UNIT. (WE HAD A LIFE AND A HOME!!!)
ON 6/22/2024, WE TOOK BASICALLY ENOUGH BAGS OF OUR STUFF, TO FILL UP MY CAR.
THIS IS STILL ALL THAT WE HAVE.
EVERYTHING ELSE IS IN STORAGE.
… ALL OF OUR FURNITURE, 90% OF OUR CLOTHES, SHOES, COATS, ALL OF MY CHILDHOOD MEMORIES, ALL OF MY SON'S CHILDHOOD MEMORIES, ALL OF OUR IMPORTANT DOCUMENTS, SPORTS EQUIPMENT, CHERISHED HEIRLOOMS, ALL OF OUR PHOTO ALBUMS, ETC. YOU NAME IT!!!!
I THOUGHT THAT IT WAS SO TEMPORARY. I THOUGHT THAT WE WOULD GET MORE HELP.
I THOUGHT THAT BEFORE MY SON STARTED HIS SENIOR YEAR IN HIGH SCHOOL THAT FALL, THAT WE WOULD BE BACK ON OUR FEET AND IN A NEW APARTMENT.
I COULDN’T HAVE BEEN MORE WRONG.
EVERY MONTH IS A STRUGGLE TO GET THIS PAID.
OUR STORAGE UNIT IS UP FOR AUCTION.
THE AUCTION DATE IS APRIL 16TH. (THIS THURSDAY!!!!!!)
IT IS ALMOST $1,300.00 TO GET IT OUT OF AUCTION AND BACK TO 'CURRENT'.
THIS IS EXTREMELY URGENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!
THE MUNICIPAL COURT TRIAL IS IN TWO WEEKS. NO MORE ADJOURNMENTS. THE JUDGE HAS STATED THAT IF I DON’T APPEAR, THERE WILL BE A WARRANT ISSUED FOR MY ARREST.
I ALSO NEED ROUGHLY $100 FOR THAT ROUND TRIP.
(BUT I ALSO NEED A WORKING CELL PHONE BEFORE THAT AND CAR INSURANCE AND NEW REGISTRATION!!!!!! THIS IS ALL TOO MUCH!!!!!)
ANOTHER SITUATION GOING ON- BECAUSE THIS IS MY PITIFUL LIFE…..
SO, MY GENERAL PRACTITIONER, WHO HAS BEEN MY DOCTOR FOR ROUGHLY FIFTEEN YEARS, JUST RECENTLY INFORMED ME OF A CHANGE IN NJ LAW, REGARDING ADDERALL. I HAVE BEEN TAKING ADDERALL FOR ALMOST FOUR YEARS, FOR ADHD. IT HAS HELPED ME TREMENDOUSLY!!!!! STARTING ON MAY 16TH, NJ WON’T ALLOW TELEHEALTH APPOINTMENTS FOR ADDERALL PATIENTS ANYMORE. I WAS ABLE TO DO VIRTUAL TELEHEALTH APPT’S WITH MY DOCTOR, EVERY 3 MONTHS (WHICH IS THE LAW), FOR MOST OF THE MONTHS THAT I HAVE BEEN STAYING HERE, BECAUSE I AM THREE HOURS AWAY. NOW, IT HAS TO BE IN-PERSON VISITS EVERY THREE MONTHS. SO, I ABSOLUTELY NEED TO SEE MY DOCTOR IN PERSON.
BUT, BECAUSE SHE IS GOING ON VACATION, SHE NEEDS TO SEE ME THIS WEEK!!!!!!!!!
I NEED TO BE ABLE TO DRIVE!!!!!!!!
I NEED MY CELL PHONE WORKING!!!!!!!!
I NEED TO SEE MY DOCTOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
YOU CANNOT IMAGINE THIS FEAR.
EVERY DAY FOR TWO YEARS.
IT IS WAY TOO MUCH FOR ONE PERSON TO CARRY. ALL OF THIS.
AND THE SADNESS HAS JUST TAKEN OVER. IT’S TAKEN OVER EVERY SECOND OF MY LIFE. MY DAYS. I AM NEVER NOT SAD.
THERE IS NO WAY OUT. I NEED A MIRACLE.
I PRAY ALL DAY, EVERY DAY.
FOR YEARS!!!!!
I’M IN THE WAITING.
I WATCH MY SERMONS DAILY WITH MY FAVORITE PASTORS. I READ MY BIBLE.
I REPENT EVERYDAY. I THANK HIM EVERYDAY, FOR WHAT I DO HAVE.
I’M TRYING TO UNDERSTAND ALL OF THIS. I STILL DON’T UNDERSTAND.
I WAS A GOOD MOM.
I’M NOT A BAD PERSON. I’VE NEVER DONE ANYTHING EVIL OR MALICIOUS OR CONNIVING OR DECEIPTFUL…
WHAT I REALLY NEED- BIG PICTURE- IS AT LEAST 15K TO GET AN APARTMENT, GET MY CAR OUT OF REPOSSESSION, PAY FOR MOVERS AND PAY MY CURRENT BILLS. (I'VE DONE THE MATH.) BUT, I NEED IT WHILE I HAVE SOMEWHERE TO SLEEP- WHICH I HAVE RIGHT NOW.
(AND TO ANYONE THAT SAYS TO GET RID OF MY CAR: I PAID THOUSANDS & THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS INTO IT, BETWEEN MARCH 2020 UP UNTIL AUGUST 2024. ITS ALSO IN GREAT CONDITION, IT IS VERY SAFE AND RELIABLE AND IT ONLY HAS 60K MILES ON IT. IT IS A 2019 SMALL SUV AND IT IS GREAT IN THE SNOW. ALSO- IF I LOSE THE CAR, IT WOULD ALSO BE ANOTHER DEBT THAT WILL FOLLOW ME AND I ABSOLUTELY WILL HAVE TO PAY IT ANYWAY.)
I CAN THEN JOBHUNT (WHILE ALSO LOOKING FOR AN APARTMENT), WHICH ISN'T EVEN THE HARD PART. MY RESUME IS GOOD AND UP TO DATE. MY SKILLS ARE GOOD. I HAVE NEVER HAD A HARD TIME FINDING A JOB.
BUT I CAN'T EVEN INTERVIEW, BEING THREE HOURS AWAY, AND NOT BEING ABLE TO DRIVE NOW... AND NO PHONE... NO MONEY… THIS IS ALL UNBELIEVABLE.
MY LIFE HAS BEEN DESTROYED.
I NEED TO BE BACK NEAR MY SON AND BACK 'HOME'.
I NEED A HOME!!!!!!! I NEED MY BOY BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THIS IS WHAT I'VE NEEDED FOR ALMOST TWO YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
CAN YOU IMAGINE THIS?
CAN YOU IMAGINE LOSING TWO YEARS OF YOUR LIFE AND TWO YEARS OF BEING A MOTHER TO YOUR ONLY CHILD... WHEN ALL YOU'VE NEEDED IS ROUGHLY 15K TO GET YOUR LIFE BACK???
THOSE SEVEN FAMILY COURT JUDGES, THROUGH THE TWELVE CHILD SUPPORT HEARINGS, AND ‘NJ CHILD SUPPORT SERVICES’ AND OFCOURSE MY EX- AND HIS FAMILY, COULD HAVE LITERALLY SAVED ME AND MY SON FROM THE EVICTION ITSELF, FROM HOMELESSNESS, FROM ALIENATION, AND FROM THE LOSS OF MY BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIP WITH MY PRECIOUS CHILD!!!!!!!
AND SAVED US FROM LOSING COUNTLESS MEMORIES THAT WERE NEVER MADE!!!!!!!!!!!! CONVERSATIONS THAT WE NEVER HAD!!!!!!!! LOVE TO BE GIVEN!!!!!!!! ALL OF IT!!!!!!!!!
ALMOST TWO YEARS OF NO CONTACT WITH MY CHILD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AND IT WOULD HAVE PREVENTED EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THESE BOGUS COURT MATTERS!!!!!!!!
SHAME ON ALL OF THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I KNOW THEY HAVE KIDS!!!!!!!!!!! THEY DON’T CARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THEY ARE HEARTLESS AND CRUEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THEY HAVE TORTURED ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FOR RIGHT NOW, I AM GOING TO START WORKING ON MY CHILDREN'S BOOK AGAIN- WHICH I STARTED A WHILE AGO.
******* I SENT MY 108 PAGE STATEMENT/ REBUTTAL TO MORRIS COUNTY SUPERIOR COURT, TRYING TO GET THE VASPA DISMISSED. AFTER MY THIRD FOLLOW UP EMAIL, SOMEONE FINALLY REPLIED AND TOLD ME THAT I'D HAVE TO FILE A MOTION TO GET IT DISMISSED. FANTASTIC. DO YOU REALIZE WHAT THIS ENTAILS?? I'VE JUST BEEN THROUGH THIS!!! ALL YEAR!!!! IT'S TOO MUCH. AND IT COSTS MONEY!!!! THAT I DON'T HAVE!!! THE 'JEDS' ONLINE SYSTEM FOR MORRIS COUNTY SUPERIOR COURT IS BEYOND DIFFICULT AND A COMPLETE JOKE. I CAN'T EVEN THINK ABOUT DOING ALL OF THAT AGAIN. I CAN'T. EVERY DAY IS A STRUGGLE.
I HAVE HAD NO JOY. NOT ONE DAY OF JOY. NOT ONE MINUTE!!!!
NOT SINCE I LAST SPENT TIME WITH MY SON- BEFORE HE WENT 'NO CONTACT'!!!
THAT WAS THANKSGIVING 2024!!!!!!
I AM ALSO IN NEED OF HELP WITH (IF ANYONE CAN POSSIBLY HELP AT ALL):
1. GETTING AN ATTORNEY REGARDING THE CHILD SUPPORT- GETTING A WELL-DESERVED LUMP SUM ORDERED TO BE PAID ASAP. (IT IS NOW SET UP AS TWO SEPARATE CHILD SUPPORT CASES FOR ME AND MY SON. 70% GOES TO MY SON; 30% GOES TO ME. EXPLAINED IN MY PETITION)
2. GETTING AN ATTORNEY TO GET THE VASPA IN MORRIS COUNTY SUPERIOR COURT DISMISSED (AND I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO SUE FOR DAMAGES. THERE WAS OBVIOUS MALICIOUS INTENT. AND OBVIOUS SEVERE DAMAGES TO MY LIFE, MY HEALTH AND MY AUTONOMY)
3. GETTING AN ATTORNEY REGARDING THE HILTON INCIDENT
******* ADDED EDIT (4/15/2026):
Tomorrow mine and my son’s storage unit is up for auction. At noon.
When me and my son were evicted on 6/22/2024, we put ALL OF OUR BELONGINGS IN A VERY LARGE, DOUBLE UNIT. OUR WHOLE LIVES ARE IN THERE. WE ONLY LEFT WITH ENOUGH BAGS TO FILL UP MY CAR, AND THAT’S STILL ALL THAT WE HAVE.
EVERYTHING IS IN THERE. OUR FURNITURE, 90% OF OUR CLOTHES, SHOES, COATS, ALL OF MY CHILDHOOD MEMORIES, ALL OF MY SON’S CHILDHOOD MEMORIES, ALL OF OUR IMPORTANT DOCUMENTS, SPORTS EQUIPMENT, CHERISHED HEIRLOOMS, ALL OF OUR PHOTO ALBUMS, ETC. YOU NAME IT!!!!
I NEED HELP!!!!!
Basically, someone is going to BUY OUR LIVES!!!!! AND FOR PROBABLY A FEW HUNDRED BUCKS!!!!
I have lost everything in my life.
I can’t imagine losing all of our belongings.
THE BILL IS ALMOST $1,300.00.
IT HAS TO BE PAID BEFORE NOON TOMORROW!!!!! (THURSDAY, 4/16)
And they won’t budge on that. I’ve tried... and they know my situation. (And the monthly bill has doubled since our eviction!)
SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME AND MY SON.
PLEASE PRAY FOR US.
PLEASE SHARE MY STORY!!!!!!!!
MY VENMO IS @Tanya-Zakk
THANK YOU TO EVERYONE THAT HAS HELPED US ALONG THE WAY.
GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU!!!!